| Ralph Muncaster: |
It's not easy to become an atheist. I actually
went to church and Sunday School for 1,458 hours as a child
from age 5 to age 18. But it wasn't until I got to college that
I firmed up my atheistic beliefs. |
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| Dwight Nelson: |
According to "Skeptic" magazine, somewhere
between 7 - 10% of Americans are atheist. That's over 20 million
people committed to a belief in absolutely nothing divine. But
remember, most atheists are thoughtful, intelligent people.
Corporate executive, Ralph Muncaster, was one such person. |
| Ralph Muncaster: |
I was on the verge of becoming an atheist right
before college. I think, in the back of my mind, I kind of hoped
that there might be a God. But all the evidence seemed to point
to there not being a God. So, I struggled with that issue. But
after
really thinking it through and rationalizing it in a logical
way, the way an engineer would, I came to the conclusion that
God did not exist. |
| Dwight Nelson: |
After getting his degree in engineering, Ralph
launched a sky rocketing career in business by landing a highly
sought after position in Brand Management at Procter and Gamble.
And by age 30, he held the top marketing and sales position
at 7-Up. A man who clearly enjoys a challenge, Ralph made a
game out of challenging people's belief in God. |
| Ralph Muncaster: |
As long as it wouldn't hurt my business, professional
career, or my family in any way, if we were in a situation and
someone mentioned God or Jesus or the Bible, I made a game out
of challenging them. And I would say, well, how do you know
that's true? And I would ask him to defend his faith. And what
I found is, nobody knew how to defend their faith. It was so
easy as an atheist to basically win arguments. And I thought
it was kind of fun. |
| Dwight Nelson: |
But for atheist, Ralph Muncaster, the fun was
about to end. While on a business trip, Ralph met with a supplier
who gave him a challenge that changed his life. |
| Ralph Muncaster: |
And the supplier happened to be a "Jesus
freak", what I would call it back then. He started talking
about Jesus and I started playing my game. Well, this person
didn't back away. He challenged me. He said: "If you spent
as much time researching the Bible and Jesus Christ, you will
find out that everything in the Bible is true." And I started
laughing at him and I said: "No way." But we talked
for a few more minutes. And I said: "If you just give me
a couple of weeks, I will come back with some information that
will so overwhelm you that you will forget this thing about
Jesus and the Bible." And what that did was lead me into
a research program, an intensive research program, that changed
my life forever. |
| Dwight Nelson: |
So Ralph set out to disprove God. Not a man to
waste time, he began by doing what he thought would be the easiest:
discrediting the Bible. |
| Ralph Muncaster: |
When I was a child, I remembered seeing all these
maps of Palestine and all this. And none of it seemed to make
sense. Because it didn't agree with anything that I was being
taught in school. So I thought the first thing I'll do is prove
that the history is incorrect. Well, when I started actually
digging into it and going back in time in history, I found out
it was absolutely correct. |
| Dwight Nelson: |
When his first attempts failed, Ralph Muncaster
decided it was time to get serious. He developed a logical strategy
designed to determine whether or not God existed. |
| Ralph Muncaster: |
I turned to statistical proof and legalistic proof,
which I studied at the same time. But what really amazed me,
after reading through the Bible (cover to cover - three times),
I realized there was a vast number of prophecies embedded in
the Bible. I also found out the Bible said to test everything.
I also found out that the Bible said to use prophecy as a test.
And when I started looking at these prophecies, I counted 668
provable, historical prophecies. When I went through the statistics
of these being possible, I realized that they were absolutely
impossible without a God of the universe inspiring this book.
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| Dwight Nelson: |
When after years of study, he realized that the
God he had openly rejected for so long was real, Ralph Muncaster's
life turned around. |
| Ralph Muncaster: |
I sat at my desk and just thought about it for
a while. Then I went in and I took a shower. And when I was
in the shower, all of a sudden I did the equivalent of getting
down on your knees. I just sat down in the shower and tears
started streaming down my face (which of course you couldn't
see because the water was streaming down face too). And I just
said: "God, I'm sorry that I've been so wrong about you
and been fighting you for all these years. Just please
please
forgive me." At that time, what I felt was a tremendous
release of guilt, of some of the things I had done in the past,
because, after all, I'd read through the Bible a number of times
so I knew that if I believed it, truly, truly believed it, that
I would be released from this guilt. And I felt a release from
guilt. I was looking forward to joy in the present and also
hope for the future. |
| Dwight Nelson: |
After his conversion, Ralph Muncaster gave up
his business career to write books and give lectures challenging
other people to test for themselves the evidence for God. When
we come back we'll talk to a Cultural Anthropologist who found
a different pathway to God. |
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| Victoria Mukerji: |
There's no such thing as an atheist. There is
only that person who is so alienated and ripped away from his
or her God that they go around in anger. |
| Dwight Nelson: |
When Victoria Mukerji was a little girl, she
and her mother took a whirlwind tour of the local churches every
year on Good Friday. They were searching for God. At the end
of the day, though, they always ended up disappointed because
they didn't feel they had really connected in the way they had
hoped. As an adult, Victoria studied Cultural Anthropology.
She wanted to study the "big questions" and refused
to accept the first answer that came her way. Her insistence
on a second opinion resulted from her culturally-divided upbringing.
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| Victoria Mukerji: |
My parents have different religions. My father
is a Hindu. My mother is Methodist. And at the time that they
were raising a family, there was no community outside of our
family. And there was no real consensus of who God was or what
was right or wrong. I studied anthropology precisely because
I had so many important questions. I have never been one to
take one answer or one set of rules or one explanation for the
important questions in life. So, as an anthropologist, I would
go and study another culture's belief system. Every religion
on earth deals with the questions of man's relationship to man,
man's relationship to nature, and man's relationship to God.
That's what culture is about. We were put on this planet and
we created these constructions of culture. We created all of
them and created the languages in which to express them. The
big question is man's relationship to God. |
| Dwight Nelson: |
Victoria Mukerji describes herself as longing
to know God from the time she was a young child. For her, the
turning point came when she began teaching at a Christian college
in Northern California. She found what she was looking for through
the confidence in God displayed by her students. |
| Victoria Mukerji: |
If I didn't come to class one would call and say:
"Dr. Mukerji, Why aren't you here?" And I would say:
"Well, my little boy had asthma last night." And invariably,
their answer would be: "I'll pray for him." Whew!
I was just blown away by that kind of love and concern. And
also the presumption, the good presumption, that there is a
God and that they can speak to him. That He will listen and
that He loves them. And pretty soon, there was no way I could
avoid feeling that same line of communication; experience the
same loving safety of knowing God. When I first experienced
God as
when I first knew God it was like being three years
old again and finally laying my sleepy head against
against
the breast of my mother. |
| Dwight Nelson: |
Many of Victoria's friends simply couldn't understand
her decision. |
| Ralph Muncaster: |
The questions, the challenges that people make
to me as a believer, always entailed the same adolescent questions.
Well what about this? And what about that? And what about the
existence of this? And if there was a God, He wouldn't let this
happen. Well that's very much like a teenager who blames the
whole world on his parents just longing for that parent to take
control again and to prove and to earn the respect of that rebelling
child. But it's not God's place to earn our respect. It's our
place to grow up, to recognize, and to worship what is absolutely
good, absolutely compassionate, absolutely the truth. |
| Dwight Nelson: |
The ability to worship, to kneel in genuine surrender
can be very difficult for some people. It took Victoria forty
years to find her way to her knees. She compares her story to
her favorite Bible story, that of a man named Lazarus. |
| Ralph Muncaster: |
In the story of Lazarus, he's dead. He knows the
darkness of death. He knows the coldness of the grave. When
he is resurrected by Christ, he is resurrected with the knowledge
of coming from that coldness, that dark grave, into the light
and love of a living God. I feel like Lazarus. Life with God
is really living. Life without God is the shadow of living.
I am so grateful to be living a life after all those years of
searching for one. |
| Dwight Nelson: |
Victoria Mukerji discovered God through intuitive
experience. Ralph Muncaster found God through logic. When we
come back we'll meet a man who grew up in a gang infested neighborhood
in Brownsville, New York. Graduated from Vassar and became a
successful stockbroker by age 23. We'll find out how he discovered
God after this. |
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| Dwight Nelson: |
Sarano Kelley overcame childhood poverty to become
a stock broker earning $400,000 by the age of 23. He's come
out with a book. The title of the book is "The Game: Win
Your Life in 90 Days." Sarano Kelley, welcome to The Evidence. |
| Sarano Kelley: |
Thank you so much for having me. |
| Dwight Nelson: |
I am amazed with those numbers. $400,000 by the
age of 23? And you began in childhood poverty. But you were
an exceptionally bright student, so that just kind of whisked
you through. |
| Sarano Kelley: |
Well they didn't start me off like I was
now,
in the beginning, what they said was that I was mentally slow
because I stuttered and couldn't speak. |
| Dwight Nelson: |
You stuttered all the time. |
| Sarano Kelley: |
Yeah, yeah. |
| Dwight Nelson: |
Wow. |
| Sarano Kelley: |
And I had difficulty writing. To this day I actually
write sideways. |
| Dwight Nelson: |
Is that right? |
| Sarano Kelley: |
So people are always wondering, how do you write
like that? |
| Dwight Nelson: |
So the seeds of where this story is going to go
come out of a pretty
a pretty austere beginning? |
| Sarano Kelley: |
Yeah. |
| Dwight Nelson: |
But your dad was financially secure and momma
was
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| Sarano Kelley: |
No. |
| Dwight Nelson: |
Tell me about that
tell me about the family. |
| Sarano Kelley: |
My dad literally arrived from Alabama to Brooklyn,
New York with $25 in his pocket and a one year old, me, in his
lap. Didn't know how to read. Didn't know how to write. And
had a medical disability. So, it was very challenging for all
of us. But really, the level of his character is just amazing.
I've never met a greater man in my entire life. |
| Dwight Nelson: |
In fact, he made you read the dictionary. |
| Sarano Kelley: |
From cover to cover. |
| Dwight Nelson: |
I can't believe it. |
| Sarano Kelley: |
Oh absolutely. I mean, even to this day, I have
a
just a love of language. |
| Dwight Nelson: |
In fact, you are so much into the queen's English
as it were, you're sitting in a class and you get in trouble
- you think. |
| Sarano Kelley: |
Yeah. |
| Dwight Nelson: |
What was that? |
| Sarano Kelley: |
Well, it was a moment where something happened
and I made the comment: "Oh, he should be ostracized."
And the teacher said: "Young man, I want to see you outside." |
| Dwight Nelson: |
Oh, I'm in trouble. |
| Sarano Kelley: |
So, I'm thinking: "Oh my, this isn't going
to be good." In the hallway, what she says to me is: "You
know, I'm very impressed with you." I don't know why
what
made her take the time to tell me that because it was a room
with 30-40 kids, but that one moment just reaffirmed the direction
in my life and in many ways kept me on the straight and narrow.
So, at that point I started skipping grades and by the time
I finished school, I was 16 years old and entered Vassar college
at 16 years old. Even though I started off
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| Dwight Nelson: |
16 years old on a college campus. |
| Sarano Kelley: |
Yeah. |
| Dwight Nelson: |
How many other 16 year olds at Vassar? |
| Sarano Kelley: |
I don't know at that time that there were any,
to be honest with you. At least not that I knew of. I was definitely
very very much on the young end of the scale. |
| Dwight Nelson: |
Is God a part of your life at this point? |
| Sarano Kelley: |
No, at that point, I'm, you know, I'm picking
up smoking cigarettes to be fashionable. I'm trying to deal
with being 16 years old. I'm noticing that all the other kids
have cars and I'm busy washing dishes to get my way through
school. So I would say that I got lost, very, very lost. |
| Dwight Nelson: |
You didn't get lost from Wall Street. |
| Sarano Kelley: |
No. |
| Dwight Nelson: |
You end up there at the age of what? 21-22? |
| Sarano Kelley: |
At 20 years old, I'm working on Wall Street. By
21, I'm working for the wealthiest investment banker in the
world. By 23 I'm - |
| Dwight Nelson: |
400,000. |
| Sarano Kelley: |
Yeah. |
| Dwight Nelson: |
In commissions, $400,000. Well, obviously, by
that point you are convinced God must be the source of my brilliance. |
| Sarano Kelley: |
No. No, at that point I am convinced that I am
the source of my brilliance. And there was a kind of
a
kind of arrogance. And you know, that arrogance got shattered
when I had several members of our extended family, children,
die in a fire. And really, that was what had me. It's literally
like I got spun around so fast I could see my own reflection
in the mirror. And when I saw what I had become, I just basically
wanted to throw up. And it felt for me, I guess, that's my nearest
relationship to the story of the prodigal son, just feeling
like I had left home and I had lost my way. And it was really
from that moment forward
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| Dwight Nelson: |
That's an epiphany for you. |
| Sarano Kelley: |
Yeah, yeah. Yes. Before then, I've got all these
different
do I want to do this? Do I want to do that? Am
I really interested? You know, let's work by day, then let's
go out and party on the weekends. But the direction was always
in a circle. It wasn't going anywhere. |
| Dwight Nelson: |
In fact, it's so significant an epiphany you walk
away from Wall Street. Is that right? |
| Sarano Kelley: |
I walk away from earning 6-figures a year to moving
furniture at New York City in the summer is a 5-story walk off. |
| Dwight Nelson: |
Now how do you go from Wall Street to moving furniture
to becoming a well known motivational speaker in this nation? |
| Sarano Kelley: |
Well, one of the things I would say, there was
a lot more God in moving furniture than there was in my being
a stock broker. So moving furniture was fulfilling because I
was clearly serving. |
| Dwight Nelson: |
Ok. Let me ask you this. God is now the under
girding. |
| Sarano Kelley: |
God is now knocked on my door. The door is open.
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| Dwight Nelson: |
God is in your life. |
| Sarano Kelley: |
Yes. |
| Dwight Nelson: |
Do you introduce God in your motivational training? |
| Sarano Kelley: |
You know, I would say that in the beginning, I
was very tentative and I had been told like lots of people,
well we don't talk about that. And I'm proud to say
and
I work with some of most, you know, famous names in corporate
America, and there is not a place that I go where I am not welcome
to talk about what I want to talk about. |
| Dwight Nelson: |
Is that right? |
| Sarano Kelley: |
And in some circles, I'm the only one who's allowed
to even reference or mention God in those kinds of conversations. |
| Dwight Nelson: |
We're talking about circles like the
the
Clinton fellows
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| Sarano Kelley: |
Yes. |
| Dwight Nelson: |
that included Collin Powell. |
| Sarano Kelley: |
That's the same group that Collin Powell came
out of. And in that group one of the things that people ask
us, well how do I handle the pressures of a really tough meeting
interview? How do I handle the kinds of things that are coming
at me and at the same time? You know, it's up to them to really
connect for themselves. I don't want to tell people what to
think. |
| Dwight Nelson: |
So what do you tell them about God? You introduce
God to them somehow? |
| Sarano Kelley: |
Usually what I ask is, ok, well, if your life
is going to be over in 24 hours, I mean in 24 hours you're done,
what kinds of things would be important to you? It's not any
of the things that they are currently doing. It's always things
like, I want my family around me. I'd want the Bible around
me. I'd want the things that are really important. And then
of course at that point, my question is, ok, so what is it going
to take to get that into your day - every day? What does it
take for that to become your life? Not just what you reach for
in an emergency? |
| Dwight Nelson: |
As far as I can tell, Sarano, reading your story,
there is never a point in your journey where you blame God,
in spite of your rather depressing circumstances. Why? |
| Sarano Kelley: |
Because it was always clear to me that the mistakes
were mine. I mean, I so clearly saw that there were people through
out history who would face many challenging situations, and
they made it a point to turn their lives around. And I saw that
that didn't have to do so much with God as whether or not you
were willing to use what God gave you. And my father was someone
who always insisted that I take responsibility for my life.
Not blame it on society. Not blame it on culture. That as long
as I was willing to take responsibility, it would always be
in my power to change my circumstances. And I believe that to
this very day. |
| Dwight Nelson: |
Sarano Kelly, God bless you. Thank you for sharing
your life story with The Evidence. |
| Sarano Kelley: |
Thank you so much. |
| Dwight Nelson: |
Come back again. |
| Sarano Kelley: |
Absolutely. |
| Dwight Nelson: |
To find out how to get Serano Kelly's book, The
Game, which can help turn your life around, sign on to our website
at The Evidence. That's one word, TheEvidence.org. I'll be back
in a moment for some concluding thoughts. |
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| Dwight Nelson: |
Ralph Muncaster and Victoria Mukerji are strikingly
different people. And yet both of them found evidence, compelling,
personal evidence that convinced them of God's existence. Ralph
was pushed God's way while pouring over historical statements
in the Bible. It was the statistical evidence of its accuracy
that drove him to his knees. Victoria felt the same nudge from
a very different source, the love and concern of students who
claimed to know God in a very personal way. I find this one
of the most fascinating aspects of the path from atheism or
agnosticism to faith. God seems to get to people on so many
different levels in so many different ways. For centuries people
have been laboring to explain faith in purely naturalistic terms.
In other words, to explain away God as something we make up.
He's a projection of our need for a father figure. We create
him, they say, because we have this longing for a sense of cosmic
security. But maybe these attempts to explain God away spotlight
even bigger questions. Why do we have those needs, those longings
in the first place? If everything is the product of a material
world, a mechanistic universe, where did this human longing
for cosmic security come from? Why do we search so passionately
for meaning? Why this universal instinct to reach out to something
more, to worship? The stories of people who find God suggest
there is someone out there who can fulfill the variety of human
need at every level. There is someone big enough to fit the
deepest longings of our hearts. That's what I believe. I'm Dwight
Nelson. Join us next time for more of The Evidence. |